1Now I Paul myself entreat you{+} by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, I who in your{+} presence am lowly among you{+}, but being absent am of good courage toward you{+}: 2yes, I urge you{+}, that I may not when present show courage with the confidence with which I count to be bold against some, who count of us as if we walked according to the flesh. 3For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. 4For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the casting down of strongholds, casting down imaginations, 5and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ; 6and being in readiness to avenge all disobedience, when your{+} obedience will be made full. 7You{+} look at the things that are before your{+} face. If any man trusts in himself that he is Christ's, let him consider this again with himself, that, even as he is Christ's, so also are we. 8For even though I should glory somewhat abundantly concerning our authority, which the Lord gave for building you{+} up, and not for casting you{+} down, I will not be put to shame: 9that I may not seem as if I would terrify you{+} by my letters. 10For, His letters, they say, are weighty and strong; but his bodily presence is weak, and his speech of no account. 11Let such a one reckon this, that, what we are in word by letters when we are absent, such [are we] also in deed when we are present. 12For we are not bold to number or compare ourselves with certain of those who commend themselves: but they themselves, measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves with themselves, are without understanding. 13But we will not glory beyond [our] measure, but according to the measure of the province which God apportioned to us as a measure, to reach even to you{+}. 14For we do not stretch ourselves too much, as though we did not reach to you{+}: for we came even as far as to you{+} in the good news of Christ: 15not glorying beyond [our] measure, [that is,] in other men's labors; but having hope that, as your{+} faith grows, we will be magnified in you{+} according to our province to [further] abundance, 16so as to preach the good news even to the parts beyond you{+}, [and] not to glory in another's province in regard of things ready to our hand. 17But he who glories, let him glory in the Lord. 18For [it is] not he who commends himself [who] is approved, but whom the Lord commends.